You may wish to consider a generally very good essay over at Barbara Wegener's Substack, this section in particular:
"Gender is nothing but personality repackaged."
https://dramaofitall.substack.com/p/there-but-for-the-grace-of-god-go?utm_medium=reader2
Think you're part of the problem by not considering that perspective.
A New Introduction To "Debunked: The Transgender 'Brain Sex' Argument"
You may wish to consider a generally very good essay over at Barbara Wegener's Substack, this section in particular:
"Gender is nothing but personality repackaged."
https://dramaofitall.substack.com/p/there-but-for-the-grace-of-god-go?utm_medium=reader2
Think you're part of the problem by not considering that perspective.